It is said we believe what is told to us because it is what we expect to hear. Trust helps lies too.You trust someone because you think you know them. Just to help the lie along perhaps you know their parents or maybe their brothers and sisters or even their children. You'd trust someone you have known along time, because you thought you knew them. Even closer now, you'd trust your father, mother, brother, sister, husband............cause you think you knew them, you'd trust your children to tell you if they needed help cause...cause you think you knew them................. then what if they were so scared..... so frightened..... so afraid........ and so vulnerable..... what if they thought they were protecting you......yes I thought I knew someone once...........because I trusted..........is it me or am I just stupid ?
You're not stupid. It's intrinsic to trust people, what kind of life would we have without it. There are predators, and that's all you can say about that.
ReplyDeleteYou are NOT stupid. The twisted psyche of a peadophile is to be that person who rises above and leads everyone to believe s/he above reproach.
ReplyDeleteYou are a wonderful, beautiful, loving mother who trusted and thought it could be reciprocated. You did NOTHING wrong. HE IS THE BAD GUY NOT YOU!