tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4658391387865934142.post716983752441948605..comments2023-05-08T03:40:19.946-07:00Comments on Please Avoid The Road To Justice: Part 1 (PreTrail)Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4658391387865934142.post-59127990992356460762012-04-10T14:49:50.381-07:002012-04-10T14:49:50.381-07:00I hope so Joyce, your words are much appreciated. ...I hope so Joyce, your words are much appreciated. M4Jmother4justicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05120129056628486549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4658391387865934142.post-72342254307142201072012-04-02T13:21:14.209-07:002012-04-02T13:21:14.209-07:00Measuring the benefit one gets from facing and con...Measuring the benefit one gets from facing and confronting their attacker should not go hand-in-hand with whether a conviction results. Courts don't determine how vaild a complaint is. They only determine whether sufficient evidence exists to secure a conviction. <br /><br />Confronting a perpetrator wins back your power. They stole it. You stand up and reclaim it from them.If as a mother you can embrace this meaningful benefit to the healing process, your child may reap the reward whether there is a conviction or not. <br /><br />Surely we all hope that the perpetrator will burn in hell for eternity. Unfortunately, the punishment may not be metted out here on earth. What is most important for parents to focus their child on is that standing up against their oppressor and saying "I know who you are, and I know what you did" will help them regain the strength and power that was stolen from them.Joyce M. Shorthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12751896589375450920noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4658391387865934142.post-61216951022867327382012-01-14T23:53:05.096-08:002012-01-14T23:53:05.096-08:00Devastated to hear yet another family has been let...Devastated to hear yet another family has been let down by the Justice system,an unbearable experience for the victims and for what, my heart aches for your daughter and for you to, for trauma affects the whole family and you and I know a mother's pain when she has to stand by and watch her child suffer. Please let me know more about family's in trauma. m4j my email iam.mother@yahoo.co.ukmother4justicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05120129056628486549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4658391387865934142.post-59491992741917501122012-01-14T17:14:55.332-08:002012-01-14T17:14:55.332-08:00I so know ur pain!! We did exactly the same to mak...I so know ur pain!! We did exactly the same to make sure my daughters abuser would never do this to anyone else. I searched for many others doing lots of research for the police until we fnally had 4 victims who would come forward. He kept stalling sying he needed more time and eventually it came to court after 3 years of waiting and others co.ing forward. We believed he. Dnt get away in the face of all this evidene!! But he got a 'not proven' verdict!!!!!! After my daughter trying to destoy herself, numeeous suicide attempts - it makes a mockery of a so called 'justice' system. Ita designed to protect the a user - not the victim. That's why I'm setting up Families in Trauma. O I really sympathize with ur pain.Maggie Wrightnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4658391387865934142.post-16402663634689280442012-01-09T23:41:28.289-08:002012-01-09T23:41:28.289-08:00Hello, sorry to hear that Jan and ty for visiting ...Hello, sorry to hear that Jan and ty for visiting m4jmother4justicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05120129056628486549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4658391387865934142.post-51913942181196219132012-01-09T16:43:37.623-08:002012-01-09T16:43:37.623-08:00I am coming into this late and don't have time...I am coming into this late and don't have time right now to read to catch up. It is a terrible burden you are carrying and I am so sorry for that. I have been down a similar road, not nearly so severe. I will keep reading... Daisy Inthewind/jan neelphotos by janhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04931922143998773384noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4658391387865934142.post-28106009677612901562012-01-02T06:26:53.372-08:002012-01-02T06:26:53.372-08:00Dear friend, in a way I am so glad that as far as...Dear friend, in a way I am so glad that as far as the 'trial' is concerned it is over. The outcome is heart breaking, and unjust, for which I have not got any words of comfort,nor would you want any I suspect, they would not be sufficient.<br />I know the hard work of healing is not over, but I hope and believe that with support and the wonderful mother you are, this is possible.<br />My thoughts and prayers are always with you,and if I can be of any help you know you can call on me.<br />Love to you all and many hugs.<br />@sheepfoldcarerAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com